Spoil yourself

There is saying that flies like this

So plant your own gardens and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

By Jorge Luis Borges.

So what does this imply? That you should be your first and foremost love and priority. As already said, go grab that cake… or watch that movie… invest into yourself, buy you beautiful things, spoil yourself.

Build a beautiful micro-universe around you, for you, decorate it, and put yourself in there. Surround yourself with beauty, with simplicity, with things that spark joy and take frequent pauses to appreciate them.

You don’t have to build a beautiful world for another individual just to hold him. You lose yourself. You can’t force any other individual to build a beautiful world for you. It makes you defined by another creature, outside you. Again, It’s not you.

Define yourself, find yourself, discover yourself and attract those that can align with you and with whom you can create and share your individual and unique micro universe.

Serendipity? Tulips 🌷 with such a lively color although amidst winter. Blessings? This bouquet that lasts for days, the gift packaging, just for me, and the walk around the neighborhood, on a fully sunny day, after a great deal of rain 🌧 and dull weather.

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